“The deal with sexual fantasy is that it’s pretend. And when a fantasy is acted out, it’s done so between and among consenting adults.” — Cheryl Strayed Shame. Judgement. Fear. There’s nothing that kills a sexy thought or encounter stone-dead … Continue reading The Collegiate Kinkster, part II: Let Me Be Your Fantasy Your imagination – that powerful, private little theatre between your ears – is the most potent aphrodisiac.